It is a timid behaviour operating from a mind-set of ‘I lose, you win’.
Its basic cause is the constant thought ‘What will people say?’
You cannot say ‘No’ when you really want to say ‘No’ and cannot say ‘Yes’ when you do want to say ‘Yes’.Behind it is your d-e-e-e-e-e-ply seated desire to be called ‘a good person’ at all times by everyone everywhere.
Now the mind-set is ‘I have been suffering so much because of people like you; I must show you who I am today. Now ‘I win and you lose’…Enough is enough now.’
So after some time your inner pressure cooker gives off huge steam suddenly on the nearest person’s face.
If the extreme A is aggressive, the extreme C is passive or submissive, then the middle point B is balanced or assertive behaviour.
It is being firm as well courteous without any anger.
The basic mind-set is win-win attitude, ie. ‘I win, you win’.
It is a consistent middle-of-the–path behaviour where you express your feelings to the right person at the right time in the right tone.
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