If you are not able to handle well your inter-personal communication, then you project your own life’s unresolved issues onto your partner. 

And the partner also does the same.

Thus starts the game of blame and counter-blame. This is then going to hurt badly your mutual bonding.

Let me show you with some questions.

Love is a sin? Not at all! 

On the contrary, my dear, you are the luckiest fellow.

Yes, agreed that most people in our society usually do not approve of such ‘misadventures’, especially by females.

But in this twenty first century our social values are changing quite fast, at least in the cities.

Everybody dreams of falling in love one day somehow.

Of course! 

Please don't feel bad or sad. Just read till the end.

Essentially all male-female love goes through 4 stages in its journey:

Some couples have physical union without any romantic love in between them; 

Or they have plain and straight sex for the fun of it without any burden of reproduction; 

II] Second stage of Physical or Sexual Love

The romantic love’s purpose is to create the attraction to enter the next stage of physical union with the opposite sex.

This stage may be only for pure passion and enjoyment or also for procreation.

You may have paid sex, or sex with multiple partners without any romance coming in between. But such sex soon becomes a very empty act devoid of any depth.

This sexual union is the union of the two greatest energies of life – the masculine / yang / rajas / mountain energy with feminine / yin / tamas / valley energy. 

It’s exactly like the two banks of a river. 

The river of life flows always between its two banks.

That is the reason sex holds such a strong attraction in human life in all cultures.

Please note that we are not advocating any one way as good or bad. 

There is no specific morality involved here.

Our role is strictly not to judge you. 

You may do whatever suits you and your partner.

III] Third stage of Emotional Love

Living and having sex together slowly builds up your compatibility with your partner.

You slowly accept each other’s imperfections as so human.

But it always takes a long time to understand each other well.

You love each other more and more for what you are rather than for what you should have been.

Your emotional love grows upon you both.

You both feel more and more complete, comfortable and secure with each other.

Both physical love and emotional love reinforce each other. 

Deeper the emotional bonding, more satisfying is the sexual act.

More satisfying is the physical sex, more emotional pleasure is in being with each other.

It’s a virtuous circle, going up and up………

IV] Fourth stage of Spiritual Love

Very, very few couples reach this final level of finding their soul mates. 

Usually it happens in couples who have been together into a spiritual path and have very high degree of emotional love for each other.

At this level you start finding God’s presence in your partner. 

Love overflows and makes the whole life’s journey worth it from every angle. 

You cannot hurry up to reach this level.

It gradually descends upon you by God's Grace very slowly at its own pace………

Yes, this is quite common. Like you fall in love, you can also fall out of love one sweet day!

This may happen before or after marriage.

Then you go through a big breakdown of your emotional well-being. 

It is inevitably an emotionally shattering experience and is very similar to what people go through during and after divorce. 

It is a mini divorce after all. 

It does cause Severe Anxiety in many, many, many people.

You have to go through a period of painful readjustment to the new reality then………

OK. Just call Dr. Arora now to directly talk with him.

Then Dr. Arora, an awakened soul, will help you through his Online Coaching on ‘7 Mind Secrets’. 

For the last more than 4 decades he has been helping ambitious people like you who are having  Severe Anxiety and other emotional problems in a Love Affair.